You are currently browsing the archives for the Bad Parenting category.



Issues of Entitlement

By admin

Are you a generally happy person? Thankful for all your blessings and appreciative of the good things you get to experience in life? Or are you an often-angry person, mad that others have more than you and not happy about the way the world works? If it’s the latter, I have a question for you: Just who the heck do you think you are? Why is it you think you deserve anything? The truth is you are darn lucky to have what you have, and that you aren’t starving in some third-world country somewhere.

The attitude that others shouldn’t have more than you, that it’s just not fair, is usually held by those who are not willing to do the work that those who have more do in order to get it. Welfare recipients think their welfare checks should be high enough that they get to drive an SUV and vacation in Europe too, just like their neighbor the workaholic who started a successful business in his spare time. What they don’t seem to understand is that the neighbor who busts his butt to get slightly ahead in life is also busting his butt to pay for that welfare check of his lazy neighbor.

It doesn’t matter to them. They hold a different world view than rational thinking people. Joe the plumber might save enough to finally purchase the company he works for through decades of hard work and wise financial planning. But angry-lazy people who hate society, work as little as possible, blow every cent they make on immediate pleasures, and spend all their spare time watching TV think Joe the plumber owes them something. He’s doing fine. But the angry-lazy people think that his “wealth” should be shared with everyone who didn’t work hard and didn’t bother saving any money.

There is a term used to describe the society which the lazy angry people envision. It’s called socialism. In a socialist society nobody has anything more than anybody else. The government takes most, or even all of, the money you earn and provides for all your needs. There is nothing to be jealous of because everybody has it the same way. Of course, nobody works hard to get ahead because there is no reward for it. So everybody has a very poor standard of living.

You know what? That suits the socialists just fine. They don’t necessarily want nice things for themselves. They just don’t want anybody else to be able to get nice things for themselves either. They want to drag everyone down to their pathetic level.

This dangerous attitude usually starts at a young age. It begins with – you guessed it – bad parenting. Not being able to say no to your child and refusing to discipline them raises them in a frame of mind which makes them think they were born kings or something, and that the world should be rushing to meet their every whim. This carries over into adulthood and causes problems.

If your child throws temper tantrums when they don’t get their way and you allow this, you are dangerously spoiling your kids. Spoiled kids grow up with issues of entitlement . They don’t understand how fortunate they are just to be healthy and living in a wealthy society. They think they deserve it all. What a misconception that is.

I have news for you: You aren’t entitled to anything by virtue of your existence. Nobody is. You might go to prison tomorrow, or come down with a terminal disease. Everything you have might be gone in an instant. There is no security in this life. If you are angry about other people having it better than you, then you need to seriously get over it. If you want more than you have put your nose to the grindstone and do something about it.

The recent election has resulted in our government being dominated by a political party who holds socialist views. That is an obvious fact, even to somebody like me who isn’t into politics. You can expect a flurry of socialist policies to materialize in the coming years. Those who work hard to get ahead will have an ever-growing percentage of the fruits of their labor confiscated and given to angry-lazy people who think they shouldn’t have to work hard to get the same rewards.

Now don’t get me wrong. Papa Riah is not a defender our current society. In fact I find much of it quite stupid, thus the existence of this blog. However socialism is clearly moving backwards. It’s been tried before and has always failed miserably. It results in violent revolutions and therefore must be instilled by military force upon the residents of it’s own country. But when people with issues of entitlement get control of world governments, as is apparently happening before our eyes, that nightmare becomes a very real threat.

Papa Riah

Technorati Tags: , ,



Bad Parents are Ruining the World

By admin

Most of the problems in modern society are the results of bad parenting. This is a fact that only good parents seem to recognize. Bad parents apparently don’t realize that they are bad parents, either that or they just don’t care. Let’s face it, the world is full of irresponsible idiots and those people are having children. Their children are raised by idiots so they themselves are trained to become idiots regardless of how smart they are born. Because children are so highly impressionable, even a very gifted and smart child doesn’t stand a chance if they have idiot parents.

Then they grow up and have kids themselves, and the cycle repeats itself. This results in an exponential growth rate of idiots in society and there isn’t anything the rest of us can do about it. Intelligent people use birth control methods, idiots don’t. Certain ethnic groups live in virtual poverty their entire lives and actually pump out more children motivated by the additional welfare check they will receive.

Another problem is that some children of good parents actually become bad parents. This usually occurs when somebody who was raised with discipline isn’t capable of dispensing it to their own kid. By comparison, few children of bad parents become good parents. So the shift towards the dark side is an ever-growing scourge upon this earth.

You aren’t doing your kids any favors by not disciplining them. If you let them run wild at ages 4 through 8, you can bet that you won’t have any control over them when they are teenagers. Expect phone calls from the police during those years. The best thing you can do for both them and your relationship with them is to be a strict parent now and punish them any time they display insubordination. And no, punishing them doesn’t mean verbally chastising a kid who long ago stopped listening to you.

You see this all the time with new parents. They want to be their child’s friend and are afraid of their kid not loving them. So they let them have their way all the time and spoil them in every other manner as well. Not only does this result in a rotten human being being developed, but it actually creates resentment between child and parent in adult years – exactly the opposite desired affect. If you cannot say no to your child then they run the house, not you. That’s a pretty sad state of affairs. If this describes your household then you are totally blowing it.

When a child raised by an idiot parent becomes an adult they usually are a liability in society, not an asset. Now there are exceptions of course, but you really stack the deck against your child by being a bad parent. I know, I know, you don’t care – and obviously are not even reading this.

Papa Riah